26 March 2006

Sunday, March 26th 2006, by Congressional mandate is National Support the Troops Day. In honor of this auspicious day, I’ve put together a little something for those who wonder why we ought to support “them.” My sincere thanks for those who unhesitantly support our troops and their families, thank you.

    They…

    They married some ten years ago.

    She fell head over heels for her soldier. Her friends made fun of his haircut while she got weak in the knees seeing him in his dress uniform, adorned with his colorful medals and shiny badges. He couldn’t catch his breath at the sight of her; his palms sweat and heart raced every time he thought of her. He has never known fear like he had on the day he dropped to one knee, looking deeply into her beautiful blue eyes, proposing marriage. She loved the way he looked at her, inside of her, through her with his piercing green eyes. They married some ten years ago.

    She loved her soldier. He loved his bride. She made the best of what the Army provided. He loved being a soldier. She never let him see her cry when the roaches threatened to overtake the kitchen, when the plumbing backed up, when the paint chipped, or when the window pane just fell from its frame. He loved how she painted the house with reds, yellows, and blues. He loved how she made the dump a home. She wanted him to feel good about coming home after a long exercise. He felt great coming home from the field. They made the best of things.

    She gave him a son. He beamed with pride. She gave him a daughter. He missed the birth of his little girl, but beamed with pride when he received the word via a Red Cross message. They had a family.

    He performed well as a soldier. She was proud of her soldier. He received several promotions. She was proud of her husband. They moved a lot in ten years, their longest stay at one base was just three years, one of which he spent deployed to Iraq.

    He came home with yet another assignment, yet another move. She was tired. They had a lot to think about, a lot to work out.

    She dreaded another move. She questioned, “Why they ought to endure this life?” She wasn’t sure that she had it in her. She knew he’d deploy again shortly after their move. She was tired.

    He was excited about the new assignment. He was to be a platoon sergeant and would be taking his platoon to Afghanistan in a few months. He felt pride in his chosen profession of arms.

    They packed their SUV to the hilt. They pulled the kids out of yet another school. They drove for three days, stopping at the cheapest motels they could find, eating fast food on the road, all the time wondering what awaited them. They uprooted their family once again.

    He went right to work. She registered the kids for school. They lived in a hotel for two weeks and ate their meals from a microwave oven until they moved to a trailer for two more weeks while they waited for a house to become available. She openly cried when they finally moved into the dilapidated house that was to be home for the next two years. She was tired of making the best of things. He felt pangs of guilt. They have been asked of so much.

    She cried, unable to speak, holding his neck tightly as they said goodbye, for the third time in six years. He whispered his love for her as he pulled away to get on the plane. They watched through teary eyes as dad left again to fight the war on terror. She was tired. They have been asked of so much.

    She again left the television tuned to the Fox News Channel 24/7. She again slept only a few hours a night, on the living room sofa, crying herself to sleep each time. She felt hatred for the Army.

    He was mad at his dad for making his mom cry, for leaving them, for missing his football games. She was mad at her mom for seemingly not supporting her dad, she worried about her dad, she missed him and wanted him home. He wrote letters to them weekly, missing his family with all his heart. He fought fiercely, with honor and bravery. They sacrificed, they suffered.

    She saw the words race across the bottom of the television screen at two in the morning, “… several American soldiers killed and wounded from explosion in Afghanistan.” She felt like throwing up. She refused to answer the phone. She knew he was gone. She cried uncontrollably when the doorbell rang. She was tired.

    He loved America, his wife, and his children. They sacrificed, they suffered, they lost him.

Support ‘em. Sgt Hook out.


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17 Comments »
  1. You are simply amazing. So touching… had me in tears!

    Comment by Shayna — 26 March 2006 @ 0501


  2. Oh, Hook…………..no, nothing to add. Except -
    Amen.

    Comment by Beth* A. — 26 March 2006 @ 0511


  3. You certainly have a gift for writing. God bless our military and their families. They endure so much and don’t get the appreciation they deserve. To those that make the ultimate sacrifice, this nation should forever be in their debt and stand by their families.

    Comment by Cheryl — 26 March 2006 @ 1311


  4. Oh great, now I’m crying again. Actually I owe you a Thanks.

    My son in law and my daughter are in Schweinfurt Germany and have been since Jan 20th of this year. He is being deployed for 18 months in June to Iraq while she sits on foriegn soil for a year and a half waiting for the Army to let them be togeather again. It’s not what I had hoped their 2nd year of marriage to be.

    My daughter and I have wasted alot of emails complaining about why the Army does this or that and why people don’t care about the soldiers and their families. We should have used those emails supporting our soldier and supporting our right to live in a country that is free.

    Our future emails will be supporting ones, so thank you for the eye opener and God bless!

    Comment by Daisy Mae — 26 March 2006 @ 1934


  5. Ya know… * deep sigh *… my heart is quite possibly irrepairably broken.

    Comment by Shelleigh (aka Pixie) — 26 March 2006 @ 2201


  6. Wow..just…wow. Beautiful writing with a heartfelt message. My eternal gratitude to all who have and do wear the Uniform.

    Comment by Gypsy — 27 March 2006 @ 0246


  7. You said it, Sgt Hook - and so very well. Thanks, as always, for the eloquent reminder.

    Comment by Barb — 27 March 2006 @ 0354


  8. They …

    Read it. Hat tip: Andi

    Trackback by Small Town Veteran — 28 March 2006 @ 0850


  9. Heartbreaking every time, no exceptions.

    Comment by SK — 28 March 2006 @ 1331


  10. My heart is broken, too. But somehow, it keeps putting itself back together… so that it can swell with pride, only to break again and again.

    Comment by MaryAnn — 28 March 2006 @ 1449


  11. Must Read For Today…

    You must NOT miss reading this post at SGT Hook’s site. Take along a Kleenex, k? Abdul Rahman has apparently been released. His vanishing could be a good sign, however, the presence of the very family members who turned him

    Trackback by Most Certainly Not — 28 March 2006 @ 1650


  12. thanks, s’arnt. we’ll remember.

    Comment by Some Soldier's Mom — 28 March 2006 @ 1931


  13. Geez, Hook…I have so got to stop reading you at work.

    Floodgates open…makeup colored tears everywhere….

    Comment by Joan — 28 March 2006 @ 2201


  14. Did you seriously just drop into my little spot in cyberspace and type “Thank you” in my comments??? Like making me bawl earlier today when I read your post wasn’t enough now you have to make me go and well up all over again.

    THANK YOU for all you have done and all you do and for your consistent support for and reminders about the family who love their military men & women. It is very much appreciated.

    Comment by Melinda — 28 March 2006 @ 2322


  15. That is beautiful. Thank you.

    Comment by LaTasha — 29 March 2006 @ 0013


  16. This was beautiful, and yes, I have the makeup colored tears at work now too. I just wish we could get more of the General public at large to understand. I wish they would open their eyes and truly see…. just see us, see the military, see their wives, and husbands, and children, as individuals, as humans.

    Your piece, while beautiful, still doesn’t answer the question that some (not enough) would have. What can they do to support them…. and every other family like them? I don’t have an answer, I don’t know.

    Comment by CareerArmyWife — 29 March 2006 @ 2022


  17. You hit the nail on the head. Great job Sgt. Hook.

    Comment by Tish - Military Wife for 10 years — 29 March 2006 @ 2207


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