19 August 2004

Win Ben Stein’s Admiration

This was sent to me via email from a retired Command Sergeant Major that I know. Mr. Stein has always been a favorite entertainer of mine but he just received a jump in the polls after I read this letter that he wrote to an Army wife.

Wall Street Journal
August 18, 2004
Pg. 10

Strength At Home

By Ben Stein

This is a letter I wrote to the newsletter of an Army unit called The Strykers, stationed in Iraq out of Ft. Lewis, Wash. The editor asked me what I would say to make the wives feel appreciated while their husbands are in Iraq. This is what I wrote to one soldier’s wife.

Dear Karen,

I have a great life. I have a wife I adore, a son who is a lazy teenager but I adore him, too. We live in a house with two dogs and four cats. We live in peace. We can worship as we please. We can say what we want. We can walk the streets in safety. We can vote. We can work wherever we want and buy whatever we want. When we sleep, we sleep in peace. When we wake up, it is to the sounds of birds.

All of this, every bit of it, is thanks to your husband, his brave fellow soldiers, and to the wives who keep the home fires burning while the soldiers are away protecting my family and 140 million other families. They protect Republicans and Democrats, Christians, Jews, Muslims and atheists. They protect white, black, yellow, brown and everyone in between. They protect gays and straights, rich and poor.

And none of it could happen without the Army wives, Marine wives, Navy wives, Air Force wives — or husbands — who go to sleep tired and lonely, wake up tired and lonely, and go through the day with a smile on their faces. They feed the kids, put up with the teenagers’ surliness, the bills that never stop piling up, the desperate hours when the plumbing breaks and there is no husband to fix it, and the even more desperate hours after the kids have gone to bed, the dishes have been done, the bills have been paid, and the wives realize that they will be sleeping alone — again, for the 300th night in a row.

The wives keep up the fight even when they have to move every couple of years, even when their checks are late, even when they have to make a whole new set of friends every time they move.

And they keep up the fight to keep the family whole even when they feel a lump of dread every time they turn on the news, every time they switch on the computer, every time the phone rings and every time — worst of all — the doorbell rings. Every one of those events — which might mean a baseball score or a weather forecast or a FedEx man to me and my wife — might mean the news that the man they love, the man they have married for better or worse, for richer and for poorer, in sickness and in health, is now parted from them forever.

These women will never be on the cover of People. They will never be on the tabloid shows on TV about movie stars. But they are the power and the strength that keep America going. Without them, we are nothing at all. With them, we can do everything.

They are the glue that holds the nation together, stronger than politicians, stronger than talking heads, stronger than al Qaeda.

They deserve all the honor and love a nation can give. They have my prayers, and my wife’s, every morning and every night.

Love, and I do mean Love, Ben.

They are indeed the glue that holds our nation together and I can’t think of any other group in our society for whom I have more admiration. Our wives, husbands, sons and daughters are often asked to make incredible sacrifices in the name of freedom and yet not one of them has taken an oath to defend the Constitution of the United States. No, they quietly make their sacrifices solely because they love the soldier who did take that oath. They are the true heroes of this war on terror and in case I haven’t done so lately, I’d like to thank the lovely and talented and downright sexy Mrs. Hook and our merry band of pirates for all they are doing for this great nation of ours.

Thank you babe, I love you. Keep the wind in your sails boys, I love you guys. Sgt Hook out.


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19 Comments »
  1. Our vets give up so much. Putting their lives on the line, being away from their love ones. I think they all deserve our respect. Great post. Thanks again.

    Comment by Missk2 — 19 August 2004 @ 1613


  2. Wow, that is very touching and true. Thanks for sharing it.

    Comment by Faith — 19 August 2004 @ 1616


  3. Amen, Ben. My deepest admiration and respect to military wives, husbands, mothers, dads, sons, daughters and siblings. You are loved and you are not forgotten. Thank you for your service.

    Comment by Patriot_Kathleen — 19 August 2004 @ 1634


  4. Big boys don’t cry, but they get a speck in their eye sometimes.

    Comment by Walter E. Wallis — 19 August 2004 @ 1649


  5. A beautiful letter which speaks for me as well. I do not personally know any military or their families but try through commenting on the military blogs and writing letters to two adopted soldiers to convey my sincere appreciation to our troops. Our military and the combined sacrifices of the troops AND their families have my full emotional suppport and daily prayers. If you share comments made with your buddies and family, please tell them how much they all mean to me and how thankful I am to each and every one.

    Comment by Pat in NC — 19 August 2004 @ 1714


  6. I’m so glad someone sent you an online version. I saw the print version yesterday, but it wasn’t up at opinion journal and I don’t have the WSJ online account.

    This is something that certainly should be trumpeted loudly and Ben did an outstanding job of saying thank you for all of us!

    Comment by Teresa — 19 August 2004 @ 1720


  7. Gosh, there I go again. Thanks to both of you for giving such wonderful recognition to the unsung heroes of this war.

    May God bless you all!

    Comment by Michele — 19 August 2004 @ 1725


  8. That was beautiful. Thank you for sharing it on your blog Sgt. Hook.

    Comment by Jenny — 19 August 2004 @ 1858


  9. I was touched and moved to tears as well. I was raised in the Air force, my father was in the military for over 20 years. He started in the army at 18 and re-enlisted in the Air force.

    I can remember times as a child when he was gone TDY, being afraid of forgetting what he looked like. I would go into my parents room and into his dresser and pull out an old t-shirt and put it to my face to get his scent. I would close my eyes and conjur up his face.

    My mom raised four of us most times without my dad but always with the knowledge that he loved us. Mr Stein summed it up so well, thank you………..

    Comment by Kyla/California — 19 August 2004 @ 2142


  10. Love Ben Stein and his comments bring a tear to my eyes thinking of my friend Mrs. Julie Moore. Julie was Hal Moore’s wife and so ably portrayed in the film “We Were Soldiers” by Madeliene Stowe. Julie was the quintessential army wife, mother and care giver to the family that was and is the 1/7th Cav. Mrs. Moore passed away several months ago and we miss her light greatly.

    Comment by Wallace-Midland, Texas — 20 August 2004 @ 0320


  11. Thanks Sgt. and Mrs. Sgt. Hook. Our family apreciates and honors your service, both of you. God Bless you both.

    Comment by Lana — 20 August 2004 @ 0750


  12. Ben Stein put into words what a lot people have tried to or even felt but just couldn’t quite get it right.

    Thanks!

    Comment by Machelle — 20 August 2004 @ 1330


  13. Ben Stein: Well Spoken
    Just read it. Couldn’t have said it better. Win Ben Stein?s Admiration BTW: I hate to do that. Just read something and just link to it. I have killed many posts because all I could think to say was, yeah. But this is an exception. And yes, I know I di…

    Trackback by Acorns from an Okie — 20 August 2004 @ 1644


  14. Thanks for posting this, Sgt. Hook. It’s not easy committing yourself to someone you know will be away from you for so long. I think it takes a special breed of woman to handle it. When you fall, you have to pick yourself up because your mate isn’t around. Then you go to restaurants and sit alone, listening to other people’s conversations, talking smack about the military and the government…the entire time thinking to yourself, the man I love is protecting their right to say those things and they can’t even respect him enough to support his valiant efforts.

    Lately, I experienced the death of someone very close to me and the only thing I wanted was the man I love. But while I may own his heart, the Army owns the rest of him, so he couldn’t be here to pick me up off the floor. But it’s part of the life.

    Mrs. Hook must be a strong, wonderful woman. You and your children (along with the rest of the country) are truly blessed by her.

    Comment by Joan — 20 August 2004 @ 1653


  15. There are very few times when I am one that can not find words to express myself but this is one. Ben said what I have always thought and he did it so well. Thank you Hook for sharing it here. Mrs. Hook you are a very special Lady with much strength, many talents and most of all a heart of gold Thank you for being the Lady that you are and allowing Hook to be the person he is today. Without you he would not be what he is for you have molded him and played a very big part in creating the hero I see and know as Sgt Hook. You and the kids make sacrifices daily and for that I thank you.

    Comment by Sweet N Sassy — 20 August 2004 @ 1913


  16. Ben Stein is a wonderful person to communicate with. I believe he does have a real love for military members and the spouses. You can see how this letter can to be at: http://www.armyspouses.com/index.php?module=pagemaster&PAGE_user_op=view_page&PAGE_id=7&MMN_position=33:33

    Thanks Sgt. Hook for posted the letter and touching a few more lives.

    Karen

    Comment by Karen — 21 August 2004 @ 0526


  17. nicely written. I can’t add to it.

    Comment by Dave in Texas — 22 August 2004 @ 0237


  18. Mr. Stein was very gracious in accomodating the request of a soldier’s wife that he had never met. To read a little more about how this came to be, go to the link below.

    http://www.armyspouses.com/index.php?module=pagemaster&PAGE_user_op=view_page&PAGE_id=7&MMN_position=33:33

    Comment by Karen Yates — 23 August 2004 @ 0438


  19. Well said, Mr. Stein. Thank you, SGT Hook. Mr. Stein didn’t mention the Coast Guard who serve as well. My son is with a Coast Guard unit in Kuwait working port security (not just “puddle jumpers” right now! :-)

    Comment by Beverly — 23 August 2004 @ 1815


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